Yep, we need one.
This is a hard age for us because we know Luke understands what "no" is, we know he likes to push boundaries, we just don't know how far to take the punishment part.
Sunday night, he got his first spanking when he pulled bows out of our Christmas tree after I told him no 3 times in a row-- after cocking his head back and laughing in my face, he received 2 pops and looked at me with a startled look on his face. I think it worked.
Yesterday at day care, Luke was sitting at the table next to sweet and shy Kate-- His teacher, Debbie, told him not to take her sippy and turned her back for a second to see he had stolen Kate's cup, turned it upside down banging it on the table, and had milk all over the table. Debbie grabbed his hands and said no, no, no. He understood. She told him to hold his hands up (he knows how to do this) until she could reach for paper towels to clean it up. Luke then rubbed his hands all in it and laughed at her. This prompted him getting a time out in his crib where he proceeded to take his shoes AND PANTS off, screaming for 30 minutes. I am so thankful Stepping Stones won't put up with this behavior!
I don't want to be a Mommy that tells my kid no all of the time, but when I do, I want him to fall in line to our authority... to that end, we will try the naughty seat and hope we can get a positive response. I will admit that a little piece of me is glad Luke has a strong personality because after all-- he is a boy and should act like one. We just need to get on top of this ugly streak- pronto! My sweet baby just turned toddler and now our parenting needs to change with him.
My friend, Sarah, just can't believe "sweet angel baby" Luke would act this way, but I am here to tell you he does. She told me about a traveling naughty seat-- a place mat-- that you can roll up in your purse and take with you everywhere you go... so, hello place mat, I mean naughty seat-- you and I are going to be best friends!